I am grateful to be a part of the Frenzied SLPs-and I’m excited to be a part of this month’s thankful and grateful blog hop! If you are just starting, check out the first blog post HERE:
Visit each blog to read about what we are grateful for-and collect letters along the way. The letters you collect will create a phrase. You can enter that phrase in a Rafflecopter. Three lucky winners will receive a $10 gift certificate to Starbucks and Teacher’s Pay TeachersA few years ago, I kept a gratitude journal. There was something fulfilling about taking time every day to think about at least one thing that you were happy for. My journal is sitting in a drawer under a few pairs of jeans that fit me a few years ago. Things got busy and it was one of the things that I let go-but as I was writing this post, I started thinking about how I enjoyed this exercise. I may need to take it out again.
I am so thankful for everyone who I’ve met through blogging. This includes other bloggers and some amazing readers that take time to leave comments or share their thoughts with me. I never would have thought that I would feel the community of online friends and colleagues.
I am so grateful for the bloggers who I blog-stalked before starting my own blog. They are amazing and my speech room is filled with their materials and activity ideas. Jenna from Speech Room News, Kristin from Heard in Speech, Jill Kuzma, and Sublime Speech were my very first introductions to speech therapy blogging.
I am amazed and grateful for the online speech therapy community-including all of the amazing groups on Facebook. Remember when it seemed like it was just you at a school? Now there is a growing online community that you can reach out too (while keeping in mind privacy concerns of course!)
I am grateful that I have a job which I am passionate about-even after all of this time. I love that I can be funny, creative, and of course a little (a lot) weird and still make a difference in a child’s life. Without communication-even very basic communication-life does not seem worth living. We get to help shape a child’s first words-or help someone regain their words and voice after a stroke or traumatic brain injury. So yeah, CC from Superpower Speech had it right when she said, “I help people communicate, what’s your super power.”
I’m also really, really, really grateful that my son has stopped using the F word. (the really bad one-not the flatulence one although he has been better about that one too.) I thought we’d dodged a bullet when I got him to stop saying it (accidentally at first and then on purpose due to my husband’s inability to keep a straight face in the midst of toddler swearing). I’d be sweaty at Target as my cute cherub yelled “&*^$ it mommy!” over and over again as I tried to get our groceries done. Finally I just pretended he was saying “bucket.” This fooled the average listener-but I know you know that an /f/ for /b/ substitution is rare. There was about a month where it was touch and go at the start of the school year. It seemed like there was nothing I could say/do/threaten to get him to stop. But he has, so I guess it’s that’s my parenting miracle of 2015 and a lead in to my frenzied letter:
One more thing, while I haven’t done a gratitude journal in awhile-I have started talking at our home about our “high point” and our “low point.” Each night at dinner, we share one great thing-and one thing that we wished had happened differently. It started off as a way to help my seven year old son deal with disappointment and failure-and to help him focus on the positive. It’s become a way for me to bond with my family in a way that I did not expect. A lot of times they are silly moments-to the point where my son has changed the activity to “high point”, “low point”, and “weird point.” I bring it up because it is like a gratitude journal-but it’s also an exercise that you could be adapted to work with your students and clients. I think it could be powerful for them to hear from an adult and to generate their own positives (and maybe listen to your “low” points) on a weekly basis. Not exactly a gratitude activity, but something I was thinking about as I wrote this post.
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jess says
Love this! And I’m happy Biscuit has stpped saying the F word. y 8 year old blurted it out at after care recently. Oh boy!
Sparklle SLP says
Luckily you didn’t run into any SLPs at the grocery store, LOL! My 4 year old routinely said, “ham-it” or “bam-it” within all the correct contexts and with various carrier phrases, like “gosh” and “oh” prior to the fabulous choice of words. I must say I miss this shirt period of her life! Love the “low/high/weird point” we’ve done “good/bad show” and I can’t wait to add weird…at home and in social skills group!
Annie Doyle says
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! All I can say!
Pam Dahm says
Hilarious as usual! I used to keep a gratitude journal, too. Thanks for the reminder!
Heidi Britz says
Agreed-it’s amazing to have such a great digital and real life SLP community (speechmunity?)! I feel for you with the F bomb- mine used to yell “Dumb *uck” at the top of his little lungs when a dump truck drove by…. it was always a Hallmark moment 🙂
adminS2U says
Oh no! Haha! So embarrassing! Glad I am not the only one.
Word of Mouth says
One of my principal’s “staff projects” (she always likes us to be trying new things) has been having everybody write in a gratitude journal during the first 5 minutes of staff meetings with optional sharing. It has actually been really nice and positive to reflect on something positive at the end of the day and to hear others’ happy/funny things! I like your high/low/weird point ideas as well 🙂
adminS2U says
That is a nice idea to incorporate into staff meetings-it helps to think of the positive things from our jobs!
Rose says
We also share our high’s and low’s of the day at the dinner table. It’s a great way to connect after a long day and also keep communication open with our children. Glad the f-bombs are a thing of the past. My nephew loves trucks and used to constantly substitute f/tr!!
Lynda says
Thanks for the laugh — sorry your son went through the F phase so young.
Mia says
AS USUAL, your post made me LOL for real! Thanks for keeping it real, Kelly! This is why I adore you, relate to you, and feel thankful you’re my friend.
Mary says
BWAAAA-HAAAA-HAAA! That is HILARIOUS!
The online community of SLPs is amazing…it’s so nice to have a place to share ideas; everyone has been so exceptionally nice and helpful!
Laura says
You always make me laugh while reinforcing such important ideas!
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